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by Grandpa's Spells
Fri Sep 29, 2023 4:06 am
Forum: Free Speech Forum
Topic: Dealing with Energy Vampires
Replies: 28
Views: 805

Dealing with Energy Vampires

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by Grandpa's Spells
Tue Aug 29, 2023 9:47 pm
Forum: Free Speech Forum
Topic: Dealing with difficult people
Replies: 12
Views: 434

Dealing with difficult people

I walked over and gently asked her what was going on. She said, “He has to go.” I told him, “Sorry, she’s the owner, you have to leave.” He replied, “FUCK YOU! I’m the owner!” This is my question…what was the next best move by me? "OK, but next step is the cops." If he stays walk away fro...
by Grandpa's Spells
Sun Jun 25, 2023 2:40 pm
Forum: Free Speech Forum
Topic: No fuckin' thank you to sending US troops to Ukraine
Replies: 547
Views: 30035

No fuckin' thank you to sending US troops to Ukraine

Russia getting degraded in Ukraine still seems like a good idea, but the operation of private armies inside Russia is quite bad.
by Grandpa's Spells
Sat Jun 24, 2023 3:27 am
Forum: Free Speech Forum
Topic: No fuckin' thank you to sending US troops to Ukraine
Replies: 547
Views: 30035

No fuckin' thank you to sending US troops to Ukraine

Wagner appears to be starting a civil war in Russia.
by Grandpa's Spells
Fri Jun 23, 2023 6:34 pm
Forum: Free Speech Forum
Topic: Trump indictment
Replies: 6
Views: 531

Trump indictment

We have previously criminally prosecuted VPs, senators, governors (a bunch in my state), etc. Other democracies have had some presidents/PMs go down. Also, they tried very hard to not do it. Trump got like 30 chances to do take-backsies and return the stuff. In general, what does not happen is a cyc...
by Grandpa's Spells
Wed May 24, 2023 3:12 am
Forum: Free Speech Forum
Topic: Bryan Johnson
Replies: 9
Views: 435

Bryan Johnson

He's had some very interesting interviews and is one of the few people actually measuring stuff. Lot of "bio hackers" out there spouting woo and bro science. This guy actually brings it. It's definitely not for me, but it's pretty remarkable. Left his wife when she was undergoing breast ca...
by Grandpa's Spells
Thu Apr 27, 2023 2:35 am
Forum: Product, Book, Movie & Music Reviews
Topic: Beef on Netflix
Replies: 3
Views: 247

Beef on Netflix

Hugely entertaining dark comedy with predominantly Asian cast. Was going to flip past it before a couple people here mentioned it on FB.
by Grandpa's Spells
Tue Mar 28, 2023 6:43 pm
Forum: Free Speech Forum
Topic: So ... Jeet Kune Do
Replies: 4
Views: 566

So ... Jeet Kune Do

Without the crucible of competition, fraud runs rampant especially for stuff coming out of Asia. Jigoro Kano doesn't get enough credit. Not the biggest sample size, but I've never met a JKD guy who could protect his head, unless he was also a boxer. At that point is the boxing that's protecting him,...
by Grandpa's Spells
Mon Mar 13, 2023 4:49 am
Forum: Product, Book, Movie & Music Reviews
Topic: Netflix Physical 100
Replies: 2
Views: 358

Netflix Physical 100

This kept getting recommended so I checked out ep 1.

100 Korean Olympians, MMA fighters, wrestlers, fitness models, military, strongmen, @fitters, and Youtube celebrities compete in feats of strength, agility, and endurance, facing elimination a la Squid Game. Extremely entertaining.
by Grandpa's Spells
Mon Mar 13, 2023 4:46 am
Forum: Product, Book, Movie & Music Reviews
Topic: The Last of Us on HBO
Replies: 3
Views: 280

The Last of Us on HBO

Enjoyed this season a lot. Pedro Pascal is friggin everywhere lately.
by Grandpa's Spells
Fri Feb 24, 2023 8:36 pm
Forum: Free Speech Forum
Topic: Mental Health
Replies: 66
Views: 2553

Mental Health

Right on
by Grandpa's Spells
Thu Feb 09, 2023 11:23 pm
Forum: Free Speech Forum
Topic: Mental Health
Replies: 66
Views: 2553

Mental Health

Gotcha. Not giving anything away (it's on the cover), but those books cover how to deal with someone with BPD, one of the Cluster B ones I mentioned.
by Grandpa's Spells
Thu Feb 09, 2023 8:32 pm
Forum: Free Speech Forum
Topic: Mental Health
Replies: 66
Views: 2553

Mental Health

Are you married?
by Grandpa's Spells
Tue Feb 07, 2023 4:31 pm
Forum: Free Speech Forum
Topic: Mental Health
Replies: 66
Views: 2553

Mental Health

Sorry that happened. My stb ex-wife's dad handled the death of her mom very poorly and she carried a lot of that.

Glad you're dealing with it, many people don't.
by Grandpa's Spells
Wed Feb 01, 2023 5:42 pm
Forum: Free Speech Forum
Topic: Mental Health
Replies: 66
Views: 2553

Mental Health

Yeah…ok but missing the larger point. A guy who attracts problems isn’t necessarily the guy who is the path to solving them. Fix yo shit first. While this is not addressing the deeper issue of being attracted to people with drama, it is three steps in a healthier direction. Maybe with a fuller gas ...
by Grandpa's Spells
Tue Dec 20, 2022 2:28 am
Forum: Free Speech Forum
Topic: Mental Health
Replies: 66
Views: 2553

Mental Health

Just saw this somehow. His wife also grew up in a Brazilian slum, so whatever weirdness comes from that environment as well. That's pretty traumatic in a "not the way American women talk about 'trauma'" way. That's some heavy shit. It is going to be hard to be this person's husband if she'...
by Grandpa's Spells
Tue Dec 20, 2022 12:56 am
Forum: Free Speech Forum
Topic: Chatbot GBT
Replies: 10
Views: 760

Chatbot GBT

Bram, here you go for the next time Prompt compose an email that is firing a fitness/nutrition client who isn't complying with the program I laid out. Not accusatory, it's just not the right fit and he's got a medical need to get things under control, and isn't doing so with me. Make this less forma...
by Grandpa's Spells
Tue Dec 20, 2022 12:48 am
Forum: Free Speech Forum
Topic: Chatbot GBT
Replies: 10
Views: 760

Chatbot GBT

This thing is astonishing.
by Grandpa's Spells
Thu Dec 08, 2022 5:15 am
Forum: Free Speech Forum
Topic: Mental Health
Replies: 66
Views: 2553

Mental Health

My buddy hasn’t responded to calls or texts, but I have continued to swing by his place unannounced. This is hard. I’m shy in certain situations and hate burdening people, but in this case it’s been the right approach. It seems like you're often in a position of helping people who have problems wit...
by Grandpa's Spells
Fri Dec 02, 2022 5:40 pm
Forum: Free Speech Forum
Topic: Ye goes IN!
Replies: 6
Views: 411

Ye goes IN!

This feels all kinda shitty and manufactured, while also creating real-world problems. I'm guessing nobody cares what Insane Clown Posse thinks of various minorities, because nobody would ask them. That Duck Dynasty guy thinks being gay is wrong. Nobody's putting on 100 podcasts to talk about it. Bu...
by Grandpa's Spells
Wed Nov 30, 2022 12:59 am
Forum: Free Speech Forum
Topic: Mental Health
Replies: 66
Views: 2553

Mental Health

FWIW this is an incredibly hard pill to swallow. The conflict levels in my marriage were lower than what you're describing, but still bad. Two young kids of similar age. Refusal to work on things. There are some details I won't publicly post because I'm not anonymous, but the time between me realizi...
by Grandpa's Spells
Tue Nov 29, 2022 11:02 pm
Forum: Free Speech Forum
Topic: Mental Health
Replies: 66
Views: 2553

Mental Health

His marriage — his wife is incredibly mean to him. His phone is full of texts like, “You motherfucker! You’re the worst father on Earth!” That was after he went surfing on the weekend for two hours, leaving his son with his wife. He's gotta bounce. This isn't a close call. High conflict marriages a...
by Grandpa's Spells
Tue Nov 29, 2022 2:50 pm
Forum: Free Speech Forum
Topic: Another IGX OG B-Day
Replies: 5
Views: 478

Another IGX OG B-Day

Happy birthday Tim!
by Grandpa's Spells
Wed Nov 23, 2022 4:23 pm
Forum: Free Speech Forum
Topic: World Cup
Replies: 4
Views: 373

World Cup

Saudi Arabia beating Argentina is pretty funny.
by Grandpa's Spells
Thu Nov 10, 2022 4:56 am
Forum: Free Speech Forum
Topic: Mental Health
Replies: 66
Views: 2553

Mental Health

I've known two people in the last couple months who've had to go to the hospital. One was released after a night, another was away for like 7 weeks. Both extremely capable professionals. I think this stuff is a a lot more visible than it used to be, in part because the stigma is present but greatly ...